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Thought about if I should, and what to write @ this point...still uncertain. I'm not trying to pop all the ballons at the party, but here goes an update:

We were home 6 days, and Jakers started spiking a fever. With his history, that means mandatory ER stay. We have since been transfered back to LACH. been here a week now, and not certain how long. Docs were perplexed at the lack of reslults from the high strength atibiotics, and are now reconsidering their diagnosis. A CT scan was performed. They found a mass on his liver, and are going to be doing a biopsy on that, another MRI, and a more intrusive biopsy of the femur. Oncology docs once again, ID docs, bone docs, and hematology docs are all consulting about his case. Once again, they are concerned about a malignancy, and are admitting this is very atypical. Jake has a good attitude, but some days hold him back more than others.

On a positive note, we were onsite for todays blood drive, and both momma and I donated for our first times today. Britticares Int. hosted the blood drive and Christmas toy drive. Participating in both was a rewarding experience. We talked again with the founders of britticares, who lost their daughter to cancer. We also met their son in the donor room. again...What an AMAZING family!!!

Thanks again to all for your kind words. This trial has been a rollercoaster emotionally, but we are still trusting and praying, and amazed at the response of kindness and support from those we know, and those we don't.

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Oh Wow Andy,

I'm sorry to hear that Jake is still struggling with this.

This has got to be so tough for all of you.

We will keep praying for him and your family for a full recovery.

Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help.

R-

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  • 2 weeks later...

Quick update:

We are still waiting on some biopsy results... My wife sat in another meeting with 20 or so specialists, and they concluded they had never seen this before ; so they had to send the samples to Boston. They decided to dismiss us for the Holidays, until we have an answer. We got home late last night and are unpacking. 43 days in the hospital so far :xmas_cry: , but SOOOO happy to be home.

I decided to order my boy one of those wooden playground/ swingsets. It's been delivered, and I'm going to assemble it today for a Christmas surprise :xmas_grin: . I have a few more tricks too, that I surnamed "operation Christmas playland" for the backyard. I'm gonna go over the top to make this Christmas extra special. "FORT JACOB" should be complete by tonight. Once I get it all landscaped and finished, I'll put some pictures up to share.

Jakes knee is enlarged: the left is the size of an orange, and the right is a small grapefruit. Mobility is limited, but with the pain meds, he is walking on it again.

We had his hospital room decorated, with a 2' tree, lights, stockings and crap all over the door, and we were expecting to stay, so this was a surpise to us to come home, and consider it a gift from above!

Thank you to all, for your prayers and kind words, and may your Christmas be a joyous one that you'll remember forever

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Got back from another day at CHLA. Met with a couple of the surgeons that worked with Jacob. Thought an update is in order...

We have a diagnosis. :woo_hoo: ..finally...after over a year of pain, and limping; and it sounds like a logical explanation. They are calling his condition a CHRONIC RECURRENT MULTIFOCAL OSTEOMYELITIS. Heres a link if anyone is curious: http://en.wikipedia....l_osteomyelitis It's a very rare disease, that for boys, is one in 6 million...how's that for odds? It is a reassuring diagnosis in that: it isn't fatal, however it can reoccur, and even appear in different areas, but we are celebrating none the less. We are scheduling follow up visits, and routine follow up MRI's, but no more hospital stays! He is prescribed pain meds and anti-inflammatory meds...all oral( no more needles or central IV lines). Not sure how long he'll be on them, but what a relief after the docs, at one point, were talking about possibilities of a prostetic implant, at worse amputaing, and then the assumption of cancer was discussed...what a nightmare this has been emotionally. My first post on this was at a very ruff time for this dad, and although I tried to hold back, and be strong for him, those emotions came out...maybe too much; but thanks to all for the encouragement. Life has a lot of challenges, but there is no pain like watching your child hurting, as some of you know firsthand. We love our little guy so much, and we are so thankful this rollercoaster ride is assumably over.

Jacob has been doing well through all of this, and for those that met him at the regatta, you would hardly notice the issue now. He's been on the anti-inflammatories for a month already, and the swelling is down, and other than the occasional incident, he is close to pain free with these meds.

After the appointments were done, we visited with a few of his nurses on the oncology floor, and he gave them a valentines teddy bear and a long stem rose :wub: He promised one he'd come back and marry her someday(He's 4 btw)... :laughing:

All of this happened yesterday, on Valentine's day, so we feel like God showed us his love for us, in a very special way! We believe this has been an answer to prayer...our prayer...and I just wanted to thank those of you who have prayed for him, wished him well, and to those that asked about him at the regatta. It has meant a lot to my wife and I.

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This is such awesome news, Andy. I've very happy for you guys. Jacob is great little guy. After meeting him and watching his antics that Sunday at the north pole, we knew you guys were blessed with such a cool little boy. He is a crackup.

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Good news. Kids are so resiliant. He probably handeled the pain better than you did watchin him go through it. Hopefully this will be just a faint memory for you as he grows up and moves on to marrying his nurse in a few years.

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:MBdance: Right on! Thank You God :pray:

This is great news.

Sorry he has had to deal with this, but the avenues that were looked down were scarry.

Prayers helped bigtime, and a strong family and caring parents are what caried Jacob through this.

Now lets pray there are no more recurrances. And hope he can ween off the meds soon.

Congrats Guys. :yiah:

R-

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Research has shown us that treatment can last 5-7 years, and some sites say he could struggle with it most of his life, but yes, this is far better than the previously discussed outcomes.

We are definatly looking for the opportunities to spend time together, such as our trip to the regatta. I'm sure I missed out on a few of the events, but getting him on his quad all by himself was more rewarding, given the circumstances, anyhow. Also, Jake and I are making this weekend a "boys run" in Glamis for a couple of days. Got a few neighbors going out, and I'm already jonesin bad.

Thanks again :DDRrocks:

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