Monkie. I have had both Iphone for about 3 years and now Droid for about 7 Months.
I can tell you the Iphone has many options the Droid does not. Vise Versa.
When I was with Att. everything was an extra charge as on the Droid you have a few extras included such as Navigation which works awesome on droid. Iphone was an extra $10.00 per month. Never tried it.
Now Iphone Has Talk to Text but did not last I used mine.
I can say the droid is an awesome phone also but if you want a better resolution phone with a clear screen the Iphone is much better. For the Itune and movies The Iphone works much better as you can actually rent movies or buy them and keep in your itunes file forever.
The battery life in my droid is great but the Iphone it drains pretty fast. Also you can not just replace a battery in the Iphone it is a Task but doable. Now Maria Droid Incredible you can not leave without a charger. Car or plug in.
Just depend what you like. I can actually say my droid is much better than my Ipnoe but I had the original one when it came out. There are now 3 newer versions which I can not speak of.
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