Dude, sorry to hear that. I recently went through a divorce as well. I fought it, she wanted it. I felt it would ruin me too financially, not to mention not having the kids around all the time. We had tell tale signs of problems. Not her talking to another dude, but other probs like her not wanting to be with me...ever. Either way, it did screw me pretty good financially, but ya know, you'll get it all back. Its only money. It appears as though she wants to explore, in my book, that means she probably already has, and just wants permission. I wish you the best. Just remember to keep your head up. She can take everything but you!