I totally agree I was living well beyond my means when I was making killer money. Wasnt putting anything away either. Im definately paying for it now. I have looked in all fields trying to find a job and not having much luck. Im not even looking in the mortgage field anything, just to unstable right now.
And yes I could go out and get 2 part time jobs paying sh*t wages, but for me, being a single parent, rather my child not suffer me never being around and getting in trouble like I did when I was his age. Its kind of a catch 22 as far as Im concerned right now. It may come down to me having to do that to survive, but im not that desperate yet. Trying to keep my chin up and pray something comes thru.