Nick, not to get off topic and I don't know u........but bro, don't be to nice. Please what ever u do don't be at her beck and call. I just went through a divorce 3 months ago. Mine tried to suck me dry emotionally, physically and financially...All she is to me now is the mother of my daughter. I don't mean to bash women....but they are either with us or not. None of this have your cake and eat it too sht. Mine kicked me out on a Monday and practically had her boyfriend, btw, which she said she didn't have, practically move in that Thursday. The good thing is though the"D" happens quickly out here. It was 23 days from the day she asked me to leave untill the judge signed the papers. Bro, just stay strong. Deal with all the emotions you are going through. You will feel better be4 u know it. This is why we have good friends and make new good friends. Lean on them they will help you!!!!Stay cool...