well blondie, ill speak up with things i have witnessed, although i know im not alone in these views.... a lot of the problems on the board are revolving around you. either youre starting trouble yourself, or starting trouble for others, saying something offensive or otherwise uncalled for, slapping people, etc. etc... usually these are after a long night of partying. during the day youre fun peep most times, but at night the "other" side comes out, just something to think about. what im saying is that sometimes its better to keep your thoughts about others to yourself. give people thier own chance to judge someone from personal experience and not by something that they were told from someone with an extremely biased opinion. dont take this as a personal attack on you, im just mentioning what has happened in the past and present...
the person that wants to go beat up the other person by the campfire one night usually doesnt keep totally honest about the situation, they tend to stretch the truth to make the person look worse and make themselves look better while telling the stories. and sometimes what you see happening isnt the case. i hate to see that happen to someone that has done nothing wrong and is a good fun peep, people forming bad opinions about them when they havent even met yet...
and before you go talking about me, i know there have been instances that ive been a $hit, and almost always after drinking too much. thats why i myself have slowed down the pace while drinking lately because i see what happends and the next day i regret it and feel embarassed.
edit... hopefully i wont be left out to dry and some other people with exress thier opinions about these situations.