Can you go talk to Tacomama ...
Raptor661 about your situation.. If you have seperated in the past and are seperating again then its likely things arent going to work out... Especially if she packed your stuff and already drew up the papers... I would look at it as a little fredom to find the one who is right for you...
Now for a lil background.. I have been down this road of asking friends what should happen and for some reason what they recommend seems to come true.. haha.. however even though steveo and i joked about divorcing our wifes and i was really close, moved out for 6 months or so.. it brought me and my wife closer than we ever have.. I guess it depends on the situation. Personally if i was in your shoes i would grab my stuff that she had packed my toys and head for the hills to greener pastures