If you didnt want it to turn into this, then why didnt you just PM the person or persons you have or had issues with than to air it out over a DDR topic? I think youre trying to rally up a bunch or GO JEN cheerleaders. Not gonna happen. New girl comming to the group,talks like a sailor,acts like shes still in high school, and then expects the people that have been here a reasonably long time to just tolerate it? My recomendation is to settle down, act like a young lady, and leave the married and taken guys alone. There are plenty of single DDR members. Attack them!!!