Thank you guys!
It has been such an up and down road the whole time. The soon to be ex wife was making it impossible for friends to see him in a reg basis during the recovery. We felt like we were in one of those "Lifetime Movie Network" movies.
First night drs. told us to prepare, it didn't look good. He made it through and was on is way back and then he had a major stroke. Then they put him in an induced coma. They took him off of the drugs and he stayed in the coma for a month. During that time a dr told is wife that he was going to have to relearn everything, if he ever woke up. She took that literally and started baning those individuals who she didn't like. She then took it to the extreme and when he started coming around, was trying to "reprogram" him into a non drinker, non smoker, non extreme sport junkie. She wouldn't let Bob see him and they were best friends. When she realized, that wasn't going to happen, she started draining the bank accnts, and foreclosing his businesses.
We had several people who would go to see him
I even took Michael too see him when he was here for spring break, because Michael's counseler said it was vital to his recovery that he see him. We were told NO we couldn't go. We went anyway
He's still a little slow, but that is to be expected. He's a tough man, he's lost just about evrything he worked so hard for, but he'll be back on top in no time!!
It's just been a crazy, hard time for the three of us since it happened.
Thank you DDR for being here. Michael told be last night that when he first wrote this, it was the first time he was able to talk about it. He remembered everything from the accident. Maybe because he has never met, but a couple of you But after he posted he was able to talk about it with the counselor. He's aleady been back in a rail again also!
So again, THANK YOU!
Thearapy, who knew?