I have a 17 1/2 year old slob more like a pig. His bedroom is disgusting, as well as his bathroom,car, and every where he spends more that 5 seconds at at time, He lives on the OTHER HALF of my house and I have come to realize I can not change his disgusting habbits, 6 more months and my hell is over is what I have told myself. However he works full time and goes to school full time and my only goals for him at this point is to finish high school which has been a difficult struggle and get the f#ck out of my house! (he plans on going into the military) Anyway I have become so angry with him that I want to the sh*t out of him. To me it is pretty embassaring to have company over to find the central part of MY HOUSE to be dirty ...meaning the kitchen dirty dishes in the sink and on the counters that came from his bed room that have mold and other things growing in my dishes because they have been in his room that long, bread crums and chips left on the counters, milk left on my kitchen table from him eating breakfest, mayo on the cabniet knobs, spaghetti suace exploded in the microwave. I have had it....enough is enough. So last night I type up a note and post it in the kitchen this is what it says.....
NEW RULES
IF YOU USE DISHES, A GLASS,
SPOON,KNIFE,PLATE WHAT EVER
YOU WILL WASH IT AS SOON AS
YOU ARE DONE WITH IT! IF I FIND
ONE GLASS, PLATE OR ANY DISHES
IN YOUR BEDROOM YOU WILL HAVE
BROKEN MY RULES. ALSO IF YOU
MAKE FOOD YOU WILL CLEAN UP
AFTER YOUR SELF. YOU WILL WHIPE
THE COUNTERS OFF, IF YOU EAT AT
TABLE YOU WILL WHIPE IT DOWN
WHEN YOU ARE DONE AND NOT
ON THE FLOOR. IF YOU DO NOT
TO STOP BEING A PIG I WILL NO
LONGER BY FOOD OR DRINKS
AND TOP RAMEN AND WATER
IS WHAT YOU WILL HAVE TO
SURVIVE ON! I WILL NOT LIVE THIS
WAY ANYMORE KAMERON!
So when I get home from work tonight I find a tupperware container w/ left over smelly tuna in it right under my note...which I consider that to say fk YOU DAD. The state says I have to provide food and water to a child or anything less is considered child neglect. I was going to empty the cubards of food, lock the food into my bedroom and place a chain and lock across the fridge doors and leave out a gallon of dringing water, a case of top ramen and a bottle of multi vitimans :gayboy:
I guess I am asking if any one has any suggestions